Going out in the gay community is like a trip back to high school, with various types of men clustering in groups at the grown-up playground that is a bar. It’s a pretty consistent cast of characters, really. You’ve got your “jock” types, the androgynous vixens, the “bears,” the “twinks” and the “daddies.”
There is a consistent pattern that plays out among the “twinks” and the “daddies.” It’s a tale as old as time: daddy’s eyes twink, twink eyes daddy, and they both end together for the rest of the evening, often going home together. And at My Dirtiest Fantasy know well what happens after
What is it about this scenario that makes it so typical in the gay community? Why is a young boy so much more likely to notice the Batman-like security guard than the Robin-ish gogo boy dancing nearly naked on the platform?
The following are the most common reasons why “twinks” attract to “daddies” like children are attracted to a busted piñata.
1. Do What You Wish With My Body
The “gracefully” aged gentlemen among us are seasoned within the art of dating, and they are well aware of their desires and intentions. They waste no time making a move and going through with it. The twinks prefer this to the other hesitant younger guys, who are more likely to “eye-fuck” you from across the room without ever actually approaching you. No time for that.
2. Size Matters
It’s very typical: men north of their thirties are typically bigger. Whether they’re built, stocky or full-on buff, the sturdier size is appealing to the younger and slimmer “twink.” Young men like someone to hold on to–or better yet- someone to hold on to them. This isn’t the wilderness, and two sticks just don’t make a fire in the gay world.
3. Get It Together
“Daddys” are more likely to be established. That isn’t to say that twinks are always looking for a sugar daddy or gaggles of gifts. It’s more about the overall stability of an older guy. Young men are going through the trials and tribulations of “finding themselves” and trying to figure my their life out, naturally they are likely to be attracted to someone who’s already been through that and has lived to see the other side. Nobody wants to be surrounded by a clone of them self, complete with their own set of their problems.
4. Tell Me Something I Don’t Know
Twinks like to be around someone who has a different perspective than themselves. If a twink is interested in the economic and social climate from when he was even old enough to be conscious of that the hell was going on. If he asks someone his age, the ‘90’s were all about Nickelodeon and Disneyland… but, there was some real crap going on that he never would have known about if not for the recounts of older guys.
5. Call Me Your PYT
The late Michael Jackson appreciated a pretty young guy by his side, and conveniently for “twinks,” so do the “daddies.” And a fact is that opposites attract. You had better believe that a twink is packing a good face and a cute outfit to match his bubbling personality wherever he goes. “Daddies” like to feel macho, and what better way to achieve this than to have a cute little someone under their arm? Both guys in this relationship will be eager to show off their dates to their friends, thinking that they’re the lucky one in the couple.
With all of these points, we’re all more capable of going around the club or bar scene. We also can say confidently that Batman and Robin surely were more than just co-workers. Just saying.
What is it about this scenario that makes it so typical in the gay community? Why is a young boy so much more likely to notice the Batman-like security guard than the Robin-ish gogo boy dancing nearly naked on the platform?
