A controversial series about BDSM who learned about its mistakes. A review from mydirtiestfantasy.
Introduction about Bonding.
Bonding is a Netflix series that I watched recently.
It’s a dark comedy that follows a grad student and her gay best friend, who aspires to be a comedian as they start a business as professional dominatrices.
Tiff and Pete, navigate the world of professional BDSM in New York City. Rightor Doyle created the show. It stars Zoe Levin as Tiff and Brendan Scannell as Pete. The show is a refreshing take on the taboo topic of BDSM.
Some prosof Bonding.
It is an honest and funny look at the relationship between Tiff and Pete. They face a variety of challenges while trying to build their business.
The series does an impressive job of showing the complexity of the BDSM community and the various relationships that people form within it. The characters are all compelling and the show does a great job of showing the various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle. From the struggles of financial insecurity to the dynamics between the clients and the dominatrices.
Overall, Bonding is a great new series that offers an honest and humorous look at the BDSM culture. A must-watch for anyone interested in the lifestyle.
Some consof Bonding.
The show depicts Tiff as one of the best dommes in NYC, the thing is, she’s really not that good.
She displays a lack of understanding of the principles of safety and consent: two values that are considered sacrosanct in the BDSM community.
She is never seen engaging in ongoing discussions with clients — whose fetishes are, again, largely played for laughs — about their boundaries. For a show about sex work and BDSM, it has no interest in engaging with the reality of what it means to do both safely.
How they improved in Season 2:
The first season received a lot of criticism because of how the characters felt stereotypical. Season 2 feels a lot more connected to the reality of what actually is sex work. It seems to represent better the sex workers and how their lives can be.
They hired Olivia Troy, a BDSM professional and intimacy coordinator, to consult on the series for Season 2. The result is a bigger focus on educating the audience through the show’s characters.
Driven by the desire to be in the models of the scene’s position, he started telling us about his first experience on a gay sauna and gave us ideas for future videos… We won’t tell about who he is yet because of his petition, but here it goes:
The Beginning Of The Night.
“I never went to a gay sauna before but I always wanted to try, I think I felt a bit shy but after I got inside the first time, I absolutely cut loose.
Dancing in a LGTB disco with some friends, when it was 2am; one of them decided to cap off the night by going the four of us to a gay sauna. I was so drunk I didn’t even knew at the time where we were going but once I got in, I didn’t want to come out. Oh my, of course not.
So I was still a bit conscious of what we were doing, I closed the door behind me, wanting to experience the whole thing; when you’re a twenty years old twink you dream about having the time of your life with a hot muscle daddy around his thirty with a hairy chest, smooth beard, swart with hazel eyes… or at least that was my fantasy since I gave away almost all of my cum watching Dani Robles’s videos. I knew I was going to have a lot of sex.
First of all, we went to the steam sauna part, and I was surrounded by all kinds of men like in the rest of the gay bathhouse, I thought that everybody could get out satisfied from that place because it was like choosing your favorite flavor of lollipop, the fact that it was friday night helped a lot.
Sitting in the wooden bench, I could feel how some drops of sweat slipped through my hairless body.”
Some of the sex.
“Some guys of my age sat right next to me, they were skinny but hot, with a kinky look with them, a bundle body, degraded and mohawk hair, wearing one or two piercings…
One of them started removing my towel, and the other one put his hand on my balls so the other could jerk my cock off, that gave me so much pleasure and I couldn’t avoid to sigh out from all of morbidity they were making me go through. But without even noticing, one of them was already sucking my dick.
Between all of the arousal I turned to one of my friends and I showed him how good my night was going; he bite his lips and told me that I shouldn’t cum yet because there was still a lot of fun ahead. So, I enjoyed some more minutes of that blowjob and then I tried to get out to leave two thirsty guys in the steam room. I felt like I used their mouths without returning the favor, so I put their both dicks in my mouth, open as wide as I could and playing with my tongue, I made them moan for a while, and one or two minutes later I left.
Following my friend, I could watch the rest of the place; glory holes, sex cabins, a dark room and even a jacuzzi.”
The first cumshot.
“I was feeling my dick swallowed since I put my cock inside the glory hole and I just got carried away by the suction, I supported my head and body on the wall. The sucking was amazing and I got to a point where I needed to know who was behind it, so I went to the other side of the wall.
A cute guy, a little shorter than me, with a beard told me to give him some milk, so I just let him blow me until my balls exploded out the first cumshots inside his throat. I almost even got kind of dizzy, I wasn’t recovered from that when he made me turn around, go to the nearest sex cabin and used my hole for his own pleasure. I was surprised that he was fucking me so easily, but I also thought that my hole had dilated before with the heat of the place and also with how horny I was already… His tool perfectly bounced in and out of my hole.”
Fulfilling my fantasyand the end of the night.
“I noticed two hot muscle guys on his thirties beside of us also fucking very hard and I knew I found what I was looking for.
While I was being pounded I gave some lewd eyes to one of them and I started touching his abs that were contracting while he was pounding another guy who was throwing cumshots on his own pecs and part of his face while the cock was giving him anal pleasure.
But I also felt how the guy who made me cum before was already making me pregnant.
After that, I got into the jacuzzi with the guy I gave lewd eyes to and he started to fuck me really hard after using my mouth and when I thought I had no more energies I came for the second time while he was filling my ass with his big uncut cock.
Suddenly, the first shades of light at 6am were starting to appear on the dark sky and I noticed that I spent the whole night having sex, a night I would never forget”.
What do you think about this night? I got hard reading it!
Last year we decided to make a scene at My Dirtiest Fantasy about Jackson Mills who goes to conversion therapy to stop being gay, and the solution is to get harshly and BDSM style fucked by Leo Marco; his therapist. Although the idea resulted in a ironically funny and hot scene, there’s the other side of the coin; the truth of the conversion therapies in real life.
It’s a controversial topic but it’s one that effects lots of gay guys. Especially those from more conservative backgrounds.
The reality and the effects of it.
Now some of you might not know what that is. Basically, it involves treatment to change a person’s sexuality.
You might assume this kind of thing belongs to the Middle Ages. Think again. It’s perfectly legal in lots of countries. Indeed, an estimation points out that the 5% of LGBT people in the UK are victims of it. And it’s a rate that rises to almost 10% in ethnic minorities.
Now to some this kind of thing might sound harmless, but rest assured it isn’t. The fact is that it can’t fix someone’s sexuality. It’s a scientific fact but thousands of guys suffer from it. The results can be devastating. Depression, increased use of drugs and even suicide.
This practice targets a lot of young guys. Often those under the age of 18.
Fortunately, it looks like more and more are becoming aware of the practice. As a result, there appears to be a worldwide effort to either discourage or (even better) ban its use.
What we’d like to see, however, is a total ban worldwide. We’d encourage everyone to pressure their local authorities to achieve this.
To some it might seem a harmless procedure, but we know for a fact that it’s not. It targets guys at their most vulnerable for dubious means.
Let’s hope we all live to see a day when no young person ever has to experience it again.
A scary past.
The history of conversion therapy dates back to the late 19th century, when it was first developed as a way to “cure” homosexuality.
In the early 1900s, psychoanalytic theories were developed, which suggested that homosexuality was a sign of psychological disturbance and could be “cured” through psychoanalysis. This led to a variety of treatments designed to change gay individuals into heterosexuals, including hypnosis, electric shock treatments, and hormone treatments.
One of the most brutal kind of procedures were the electric shocks based in the behaviorism approach of psychology. An individual receives one type of stimulus (the shock) while there’s another one around (the image of a man). If the subject is aroused by the man, he receives the shock. This is supposed to cause a response; that being attracted by men is painful and you should be attracted to women instead, but it’s non-effective since it doesn’t magically generates an attraction to women and it just makes the predetermined attraction to men a traumatic and painful experience; something that the subject will have to live with. This tortured a lot of LGTB people in those ages.
In the 1950s, the practice of conversion therapy became more mainstream with the publication of Dr. Edmund Bergler’s book, Homosexuality: Disease or Way of Life? This book argues that homosexuality is a disease that has to be cured.
In the 1970s and 1980s, the practice of conversion therapy became even more widespread, due to a rise in religious fundamentalism and the introduction of “ex-gay” ministries. These ministries sought to “cure” homosexuality through prayer and spiritual guidance.
The beginning of the change.
Today, we know that conversion therapies is unethical and ineffective.
In recent years, in 2009, the American Psychological Association (APA) issued a statement condemning the practice, citing a lack of scientific evidence to support its efficacy and a potential for harm.
In 2012, California became the first state to ban conversion therapy for minors, with several other states following suit. In addition to the medical community’s condemnation of conversion therapy, several legal challenges are making an effort to end the practice.
In 2018, a federal judge in California ruled that conversion therapy was unconstitutional and violated the rights of LGBT people. Despite the growing opposition to conversion therapy, some religious and conservative organizations continue to promote it.
In 2020, the Trump administration proposed a rule that would allow doctors and therapists to practice conversion therapy without consequence. The proposed rule is currently being challenged in court. The future of conversion therapy is uncertain, but opposition to the practice continues to grow. That same year, the APA issued a new statement condemning conversion therapy, and many cities and states are considering legislation to ban it.
We are far from defeating conversion therapies, but there is progress every day.
Foot fetish is one of the most common types of fetishes. The foot and the genitals occupy contiguous areas in the somatic-sensory cortex, and there are possibly links between the two.
When it comes to exploring our sexuality, fetishes can sometimes be a taboo topic. We don’t care about taboos at MY DIRTIEST FANTASY (as you might now) so… if you’re curious to learn more about fetishes; here are 5 fascinating facts about sexual fetishes you should know.
1. Fetishes can exist in any form.
Fetishes are a form of sexual arousal that involve an object, body part, or activity that is not typically associated with sexual activities.
While they are often associated with kink and BDSM, they can actually exist in any form. It’s simply a strong, often sexual, attraction to something or someone. While some people may think that fetishes are only related to BDSM, this isn’t always the case. They can range from mild to extreme, and can involve anything from feet to role-playing. For example, someone may be aroused by the sight of high heels or the sound of someone’s voice. Some people may even be aroused by being spanked or tied up. They can also involve certain activities as exhibitionism.
They are not necessarily considered to be abnormal or unhealthy. Many people enjoy exploring and experimenting with them.
However, it’s important to have clear communication between partners when exploring fetishes. Find something that you’re both comfortable with. Be open and honest with each other about your feelings and desires. This can help to ensure that everyone is having a positive experience.
Daddy / Boy is one of the most popular fetishes
2. Fetishes Are Often Not As Weird As They Sound.
The reality is that they are much more common than you may think and are often not as weird as they sound. It’s defined as an intense sexual desire for a particular object, body part, activity, or situation. It is more than just having a preference; it is a strong sexual urge that can be both arousing and comforting.
The most common fetishes involve feet, leather, rubber, and latex, but there are many more. People are naturally drawn to different things, which is why some people may find a certain object or activity particularly stimulating.
Furthermore, they can often provide a sense of comfort and security during intimate moments. For some, a particular object or activity can be comforting or can even bring back fond memories. In conclusion, they are common and should not be seen as strange or taboo.
3. Fetishes Can Be Learned.
While some are inborn, others can be learned. Learning a fetish can be a difficult process. For example, if a person has a fetish for a certain body type, they must learn to accept and appreciate that body type in order to have a successful relationship. This can be with people or objects.
In order to learn a fetish, it is important to be open-minded and to take the time to explore what interests you. There are a variety of books, videos, and websites dedicated to helping people learn about different fetishes. Additionally, talking to people with similar interests can be a great way to learn. Learning a fetish can be a rewarding experience. It can provide a person with a greater understanding of their sexuality and help them to explore and appreciate their desires. It can also help to provide a person with a sense of acceptance and community.
However, it is important to be respectful and understanding of different people’s fetishes and to not judge or criticize someone for their interests. It is also important to practice safe sex and to be aware of consent laws in your area.
4. Fetishes Can Make Relationships More Interesting.
Fetishes can make relationships more interesting by introducing new and exciting elements into the bedroom. From the exotic to the mundane, they can add mystery, excitement, and exploration to a relationship. They can provide an opportunity for partners to explore new aspects of their sexuality. From role-playing scenarios to exploring different physical sensations, they can open up new doors for partners to explore and experience. And, with the wide array of fetishes out there, partners can explore different kinds together to see what works for them. They can also be a way to keep a relationship fresh and exciting. This can lead to more intimacy and closeness between partners.
Finally, they can also be a way to explore boundaries and communication in a relationship. By discussing and experimenting with different fetishes, partners can learn more about each other’s desires and boundaries. This can help partners build trust and understanding in their relationship and can even lead to greater sexual satisfaction. So if you’re looking to spice up your relationship, consider exploring some fetishes together.
5. Fetishes Can Help People Explore Their Sexuality.
For those who may be uncomfortable or hesitant to explore their sexuality, fetishes can provide an opportunity for exploration in a safe and controlled environment. By engaging in a fetish, you can take the time to learn about yourself and what turns you on. Many people find that having a fetish gives them an outlet to explore their desires without fear of judgement or rejection. They can also be used to explore different types of kink and BDSM activities, allowing you to discover what turns you on and make your sex life even more exciting.
In addition to providing an outlet for exploration and discovery, fetishes can also help people become more comfortable with their own bodies. By engaging in a fetish, you can learn to accept and appreciate all the different parts of your body that make you uniquely you.
We at MY DIRTIEST FANTASY love fetish! That is why we made a living out of it. If you are curious about our work and want to watch some super hot guys living their fetishes… VISIT OUR SITE!
Sam Acevado momified playing submissive with Leo Marco.
Not being able to move at ALL is a huge turn on for many people, however mummification is not just about restricting the submissive. It can also be used to create mild to complete sensory deprivation for the slave forcing them to focus only on the few sensations the Dominant chooses to provide. This can lead to a truly enhanced sense of arousal as the slaves mind quiets, any form of stimulation becomes amplified as the submissive has nothing else to focus on or distract them from what their Dominant is doing.
There are many different types of materials that can be used for mummification. Some are found in your home while others are sold specifically for this activity. Some favorite materials including plastic wrap, duct tape, medical bandages, bondage tape, leather binders or straitjackets.
Types of Mummification
There are three basic types of mummification, Zone, Limited, and Full Body.
Zone Mummification is where specific areas of the body are wrapped.. This technique is a good start for beginners to get the sensation of being constricted. For example binding a leg whilst bending it thus limiting the mobility of that limb.
Limited Mummification is where the body is wrapped only from the shoulders down to the feet. The head is not wrapped. This is ideal as a second step after trying the Zone Mummification as neither mouth or nose are covered, and your partners eyes can be blindfolded, or not.
Full Body Mummification is an extreme form of bondage, and it is the most dangerous, so extra precautions should be taken by the dominant to ensure safety. With full body mummification, the submissive is wrapped from the top of the head to the bottom of the feet. Some type of breathing device must be used for the safety of the submissive.
This form of mummification can be disorientating and thereby mess with the submissive psychologically during and after and can cause long-term emotional trauma if not done properly.
Try to imagine the psychological impact that being trapped within a tightly wrapped container with no way to escape as an individual with no knowledge of what they are doing stands above you and does nothing to help. This horrific experience can lead to longer term forms of anxiety, mistrust, and depression to only name a few.
Full body mummification should not be tried by beginners.
Before Wrapping
Always trust your instincts, if you don’t feel comfortable or feel uneasy you can say “stop”, “no thank you” or “I am done playing” at any time. Don’t ever let anybody tell you, you can’t stop a scene at any time or you have to participate in activity you are not comfortable with.
Trust is essential to mummification, one person is going to be completely immobilized and helpless for who knows how long. If you wouldn’t leave your wallet or purse unattended with a person you do not know, chances are pretty good you shouldn’t trust your life with them. Therefore it is crucial you know the person you are playing with and trust them, and that takes time.
Mummification with someone you don’t know or trust is extremely risky.
Mummification is not a quick process. Plan at least thirty minutes to wrap the submissive, at least 10 minutes to an hour to leave them wrapped, and 15 to 20 minutes to free them.
The dominant will need approximately 100 yards of cling wrap, a few yards of duct tape, a head mask, cotton balls, Ace bandages, and a pair of EMT scissors. Have these on-hand before you start wrapping, nothing destroys the mood of a scene like laying around as your partner tries to find all their supplies.
Find a comfortable place where your partner can lie down. This can be a bed, couch, or other flat surfaces.
Find out if your partner has any form of clastrophobia. If so this is not the kind of play for them.
Limited Mummification
As previously mentioned in the Limited Mummification the head is not wrapped, but the submissive can wear a mask, hood, or blindfold. Have the slave naked while wrapping, so they can feel the wrap applied to their body can help to create a more submissive head space.
Wrap the torso a couple of times pulling the wrap tight. While you can wrap across the chest, you might find it can become extremely easy to make the wrap too tight as you pull along the torso. Try not to just wrap the chest itself but crisscross the shoulders and chest. This allows for a little more breathing room in the wrap.
Have the submissive put their arms down and wrap again. Make sure it is nice and tight, but not so tight that it obstructs the ability of the submissive to breathe. Every time the wrap is crossed over the chest and back, having the submissive take in a big breathe and holding it as the wrap is pulled over will help to ensure the wrap is never so tight to restrict their ability to breathe.
It is easier to apply the wrap while the submissive stands, but falling over can be a hazard.
Start wrapping at the top and work your way downwards and smooth the plastic as you wrap. Once you get to the hips, the submissive should lay down. You will need to assist them because they will not be able to help you. Have the submissive cross their ankles and continue to wrap all the way down.
Remember if you choose, you can always leave several strategically placed unwrapped areas for play! This could include the nipples and/or the ass and genital areas.
Make sure you leave the nasal and mouth areas open and free of any obstructions to ensure there are no breathing problems. Since the submissive cannot move, check these areas often, always monitor their breathing and their face for signs of stress and panic.
If both partners enjoy the sensation of having the wrap, or tape cut off key areas of interest after being wrapped having a protective barrier to help to make sure the submissive is not hurt while exposing these areas is always a good idea. Having a small towel or cotton balls covering the area of interest underneath the wrappings, such as over the nipples, genitals or other areas will protect that area in case the Dominant accidentally cuts too deep. Giving you both more room for safety.
Full Body Mummification
Similar to the limited style, but the head is also wrapped. This type of mummification requires some type of assisted breathing device because the nose and mouth are restricted. Large holes for breathing are recommended for safety concerns.
Cotton balls, cloth, blindfold, headphones, ear plugs, ear muffs or ear protectors can be placed over the eyes and ears to not only protect them, but to increase the sensory deprivation experience. With no light or sound and a complete lack of mobility, producing a floating like experience.
The mind which is normally always overworking as it deals with images flooding the visual cortex, noise blasting against the eardrum and the constant need to control muscles to keep the body balanced are finally silenced. The mind for the first time is now allowed to freely float into the recesses of the mind unhindered by the constant noise of the surrounding world. Many people feel complete freedom not only from the world but from themselves.
For a more intense experience, wrap each limb first and then wrap the limbs to the body.
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Hi, wankers! My name is Y and I’m one of Timmy Treasure’s assistants. Lately I’ve been in charge of editing the photos and videos of My Dirtiest Fantasy. Going to the shootings and watch the actors fuck live is also an important part of my job also because it can give me ideas at the time of creating the audiovisual material!
I started working for Timmy 4 months ago and I’m still processing the first day I worked for him. BDSM is such a wide world, it’s a culture, and it’s a way to express yourself through sex, it’s almost like an art. Must be an art.
Timmy’s amazing, I don’t say so just to kiss his ass because he’s my boss, no, I really think he’s a professional and someone to look up to. As a retired model, he’s very good at guiding our actors to make the most of our scenes, and he’s taught me all I learnt lately. Thank you, professor! Also, he knows how to create a good productivity and work environment. And the actors who work with Timmy are mostly very interesting people! And today I want to talk about them and I want to talk about their work.
Some of the models.
Erik Devil, Pup Davey, Galiel Swan, Angel Black, Izan Loren, Craig Kennedy…
All of them have remarkable strenghts as porn models; Erik never fails having a hard-on and give the best cumshots to the camera. He’s young, beautiful and has attitude. If you fell in love with him, nobody can blame you. Galiel is so pure as a person, but we know he isn’t when recording! Angel is latin passion, tastiness and a submissive excelent bottom. Izan is funny, and he really lights up the vibe when we are working. Craig… well, no words. He’s perfect, from head to foot, every detail of him, and he knows about the importance of mental health! I really like when he talks about his ideas of projects in twitter about helping LGTBQ+ people who suffered some kind of abuse. You know how much I support you on that, Craig.
But… Pup Davey’s ass…
But… There’s someone I’d like to talk about too. And that is… Pup Davey.
Pup Davey is so funny! He also loves being bitchy; last time I had to clean a dildo for him he told me to do that and he also said; are you happy you got this job? Yeah, I love cleaning dildos for you, don’t ask me that as if it was boring or worse to clean dildos than being a camera or a director! But no hard feelings, Davey, you are such a great model and it was enjoyable to help you with your make-up or talk about whatever, but where you surprised me the most was when you showed me your ass. Yes, your ass is another universe, look at these photos! I never seen something like this! I was totally tripping! My mouth was wide open while watching! Your ass could swallow the whole galaxy! I could remember that I was working between all the surprise I was feeling and I was able to make a video with my phone, the scene hasn’t come out yet, so this is a little behind the scenes preview:
And this is actually nothing for him. You’re going to watch even more hardcore stuff on his scenes.
The professional porn actor Joaquin Santana wearing the chest harness and the hip harness in one of our bondage sessions.
Let’s start with the basics.
Shibari, also known as Japanese rope bondage, is a form of rope bondage that originated in Japan. It typically involves the use of rope to create intricate patterns on the body, which can be both aesthetically pleasing, sexually and spiritually stimulating. We made a scene at mydirtiestfantasy.com! Go watch!
Shibari and BDSM are two practices that often go hand-in-hand.
When used together, Shibari and BDSM can create a powerful sexual connection between partners. The rope can be used to create a sense of physical and emotional closeness, while the BDSM activities can add an extra layer of excitement and intensity. The combination can be truly intoxicating, and even addictive for some.
Exploring Shibari.
If you’re interested in exploring Shibari with your partner, there are a few things you should keep in mind. First, communication is key. Make sure you discuss your desires, limits, and boundaries with your partner before getting started. It’s also important to be safe and use proper safety precautions, such as using quality rope and ensuring that knots are tied securely. And finally, don’t forget to have fun! Shibari can be an incredibly erotic and satisfying experience for both partners when done right. Shibari also has a number of benefits beyond the sexual. The act of tying and being tied can be incredibly meditative and relaxing, and can help to create a deep sense of connection between partners. It can also be used as a form of self-expression, and can be an incredibly empowering experience for those who engage in it.
Key Tips.
When engaging in Shibari, it is important to be aware of a few key safety precautions. First, always use quality rope. This will help to avoid rope burns and other injuries. Second, make sure knots are tied securely. This will help to prevent the rope from coming undone and potentially causing injury. Finally, communication is key. Discuss your desires, limits, and boundaries with your partner before getting started. This will help to ensure that both partners are on the same page and that everyone is comfortable and safe.
Patterns and how to.
There are a variety of different patterns that can be used when doing Shibari. Some of the most popular include the single column tie, the chest harness and the hip harness. Each of these patterns can be used to create a different effect and can be adjusted to fit the individual’s needs. When choosing a pattern, it is important to consider the individual’s comfort level and what you hope to achieve. For beginners, it is often best to start with a simpler pattern and build up to more complex ones. With practice, you’ll be able to create any number of different patterns to suit your needs.
Here are ways to do two of the most popular patterns for you to enjoy with your partner:
How to do a Shibari chest harness:
Start by tying a rope around the person’s chest, just below the breasts.
Make sure the rope is tight, but not too tight.
Cross the rope over the person’s back, and tie it in the front.
Cross the rope again in the back, and tie it in the front.
Repeat steps 3 and 4 until you have a lattice-like pattern.
Tie the rope off in the front, and trim the excess.
How to do a Shibari hip harness:
Measure your hips and choose the appropriate size rope for your body.
Fold the rope in half and tie a basic knot at the center.
Wrap the rope around your hips, crossing the rope in the front and passing it under your butt.
Tie a knot in the front, making sure the rope is tight but not too tight.
Take the ends of the rope and tie them together in a basic knot.
You can adjust the tightness of the rope by pulling on the ends of the rope.
When you’re about to start giving a blowjob it is important to start slowly, especially if he isn’t rock hard yet. You’ll have to get him hard before our mouth. So, you can start with little licks on his glans and lick all the way down to his balls. Once you feel this is enough, now’s the time to get the cock inside your mouth to start sucking him off. There are men whom like the depth, so if this is the case you might want to move on to a deep throat. However, if your partner rather his glans receiving all the pleasure, you should lick and suck off that area essentially.
Don’t forget to use your hands
Hands can be the perfect partners when you’re giving a blowjob if you can keep the rhythm with your mouth. If you’re arrhythmic, maybe this isn’t ideal for you. We advise you to do it one by one and repeat.
Adopt a good posture…
Your posture is important and is essential for the pleasure of both parts. However, cocks come in all shapes and sizes, so to increase the pleasure you might want to adapt your posture to be aligned with his. If a curved cock is presented to you, you may want him to be standing and you kneeling, or even a sixty-nine position.
Keep your teeth as far away as possible
Maybe you and your man are fanatics of torture sex and you use to bite each other your cocks. So, it’s okay. But if not, be careful my friend!
Change the rhythm, strength and intensity
You won’t keep your boy excited for long if you only have one repetitive posture. He probably will get bored. So, you can change the intensity, first slow then faster, switching between mouth and hands. Your boy won’t know what you’ll do next and that will drive him crazy. However, for the final moments, the same at the rhythm and strength may be the successful method for a gooey facial.
Look him in the eyes
Look at him. Don’t doubt to look at his face and torso while you’re licking and sucking his cock. It’s an extra sexual desire added.
Remember he has balls!
Don’t forget his balls. For many men it brings them great pleasure to touch and suck off his balls. You can mix two techniques: sucking them and holding them softly with your hand.
How to end
Decide how you’ll want the blowjob to end. If you don’t mind your partner shooting in your mouth or over another part of your body (your own penis for example) don’t doubt to mention this to him. This will be more pleasurable for both of you!
Going out in the gay community is like a trip back to high school, with various types of men clustering in groups at the grown-up playground that is a bar. It’s a pretty consistent cast of characters, really. You’ve got your “jock” types, the androgynous vixens, the “bears,” the “twinks” and the “daddies.”
There is a consistent pattern that plays out among the “twinks” and the “daddies.” It’s a tale as old as time: daddy’s eyes twink, twink eyes daddy, and they both end together for the rest of the evening, often going home together. And at My Dirtiest Fantasy know well what happens after
What is it about this scenario that makes it so typical in the gay community? Why is a young boy so much more likely to notice the Batman-like security guard than the Robin-ish gogo boy dancing nearly naked on the platform?
The following are the most common reasons why “twinks” attract to “daddies” like children are attracted to a busted piñata.
1. Do What You Wish With My Body
The “gracefully” aged gentlemen among us are seasoned within the art of dating, and they are well aware of their desires and intentions. They waste no time making a move and going through with it. The twinks prefer this to the other hesitant younger guys, who are more likely to “eye-fuck” you from across the room without ever actually approaching you. No time for that.
2. Size Matters
It’s very typical: men north of their thirties are typically bigger. Whether they’re built, stocky or full-on buff, the sturdier size is appealing to the younger and slimmer “twink.” Young men like someone to hold on to–or better yet- someone to hold on to them. This isn’t the wilderness, and two sticks just don’t make a fire in the gay world.
3. Get It Together
“Daddys” are more likely to be established. That isn’t to say that twinks are always looking for a sugar daddy or gaggles of gifts. It’s more about the overall stability of an older guy. Young men are going through the trials and tribulations of “finding themselves” and trying to figure my their life out, naturally they are likely to be attracted to someone who’s already been through that and has lived to see the other side. Nobody wants to be surrounded by a clone of them self, complete with their own set of their problems.
4. Tell Me Something I Don’t Know
Twinks like to be around someone who has a different perspective than themselves. If a twink is interested in the economic and social climate from when he was even old enough to be conscious of that the hell was going on. If he asks someone his age, the ‘90’s were all about Nickelodeon and Disneyland… but, there was some real crap going on that he never would have known about if not for the recounts of older guys.
5. Call Me Your PYT
The late Michael Jackson appreciated a pretty young guy by his side, and conveniently for “twinks,” so do the “daddies.” And a fact is that opposites attract. You had better believe that a twink is packing a good face and a cute outfit to match his bubbling personality wherever he goes. “Daddies” like to feel macho, and what better way to achieve this than to have a cute little someone under their arm? Both guys in this relationship will be eager to show off their dates to their friends, thinking that they’re the lucky one in the couple.
With all of these points, we’re all more capable of going around the club or bar scene. We also can say confidently that Batman and Robin surely were more than just co-workers. Just saying.
What is it about this scenario that makes it so typical in the gay community? Why is a young boy so much more likely to notice the Batman-like security guard than the Robin-ish gogo boy dancing nearly naked on the platform?
Today, we are going to talk about fisting, more specifically, about anal fisting.
We live in a time where we try to break taboos, get to know ourselves, explore our own body, our sexuality and our mind, without being inhibited by anything, without prejudice and with an open mind.
For this reason, many sexual practices that have been a taboo or stigma for many years, considered as practices that only the sexual depraved performed, are becoming more and more popular, and more and more people are feeling curious to experiment.
For those who still do not know what it is. Basically, we will say that it is a sexual practice that consists of inserting the hand into the anus of another person. For some, this is something completely unimaginable. Myself, before entering the world of fetish and BDSM, I would never have imagined that this was possible. Instead, I have to say that to this day, it is one of my favourite practices!
TO BEGIN WITH:
Fisting isn’t just for experts. Anyone can practice fisting, but of course, it is not something that can be done overnight. It requires training and patience to prepare the body.
FISTING TRAINING
The first step, of course, is to train the anal muscles so that they can expand sufficiently. For this, the most normal thing is to use anal toys, dildos, butt plugs… starting with a small diameter, which is comfortable.
Little by little, you can increase the diameter of the dildos that you use. Every time you go bigger, take it easy. At first, it will be difficult to introduce them, do it slowly, without haste and with a lot of lube. After several days, you will see how your anus has become used to relaxing and dilating to that point and you will be able to insert it more easily. At that point, you are ready to go up in size. It is also advisable to leave a few days of rest between the days of practices, since micro-cracks can occur in the skin, which is important to heal.
FISTING, FIRST STEPS.
When your anus is used to dilating and relaxing to a considerable extent after a few weeks of training, you can start taking action!
At this point, the most important thing is communication with the person who is going to introduce his or her hand. You must guide them at all times, specially the first times you try to do this practice. Indicating if he should apply more pressure to insert the hand, or should stop because it hurts, etc.
Something really to keep in mind is the lubricant. As we have said, lubricating both the hand and the ass very well is very important. And for this, it is best to use a specific lubricant for fisting. There are many on the market and each one must find the one that suits him best. Make sure it lubricates well, does not give you allergies or makes you feel burning inside the anus. You will have to try, but the ones that usually work best for everyone are powdered fisting lubricants, without chemicals. Then before the fisting session, you have to mix it with warm water. You can give it the viscosity that you like the most, so it is perfect for everyone! And it depends on the brand, but it usually lasts 2 or 3 days mixed. Then it must be discarded as it does not carry chemicals.
Another very important thing is the position of your partner’s hand. There is a highly studied position, which is recommended for practicing FISTING, especially for beginners.
It basically consists of putting all the fingers of the hand together, pointing forward, and arching the hand a little while putting the thumb into the palm of the hand, but also pointing forward.
By placing the hand in this way, you achieve the hand to be as thin as possible at the tip, and it gradually opens the anus. Starting with the tips of the fingers until it ends at the wrist, once completely inserted.
A tip that usually works for the first few times is, insert your hand to the point you can bear, then remove it for a few seconds to let the muscles rest, then insert it a little more, remove it again… And repeat this operation to that the hand of your companion goes little by little deepening. With a little effort and a lot of lubricant, you will notice that the hand is sliding more and more towards the inside of your anus.
It is not common that in the first attempt it is achieved, unless in the training phase, you have managed to introduce toys of considerable proportions.
If you don’t get it the first time, don’t worry. Wait a few days and try again. And so on, until the big day arrives!
INLAND
I want to explain to you the sensations that you will experience the first time you manage to insert another person’s hand into your anus.
The hand, in the position that we have discussed before, will enter quite well to the point of past the fingers. Once that point is passed, both you and your partner will notice that the resistance is very great. Again, repeat that communication is essential.
At this point you should focus a lot on relaxation. Breathe deeply, take a breath and exhale it slowly, while relaxing, relax the anal sphincter as much as you can. Your partner should at this point apply a little extra pressure on the hand to overcome the resistance of your anal muscles. Little by little, you will notice how your anus opens even more and the hand begins to penetrate. If it hurts a lot, tell your partner to pull their hand out and let you relax even more. If the pain is mild (there is always some pain at first). Your partner can continue pressing until the wind area is passed.
At that moment, you will notice how the entire hand slides into your anus alone… and you will feel for the first time one of the most indescribable sensations that a person can experience in sex.
You will feel completely full, excited by the curiosity of what is happening, sharing that moment of supreme intimacy with another person. And added to all this, you will feel a lot of pleasure due to the pressure that the hand will be doing on your prostate, and on all the nerve endings in your anus.
After a few seconds of ecstasy, if you notice that it hurts, or the feeling overwhelms you, tell your partner to slowly remove their hand. To do this, you must remain relaxed so that your anal muscles do not make a lot of force and it does not hurt when you take it out.
Once your partners hand is out, breathe, take a breath, and be proud of yourself! For the first time in your life, you have been able to do fisting.
In this first session, you can repeat getting fisted, but surely your anus will be a bit sore from the effort.
TAKING PRACTICE
In following fisting sessions, repeating the entire process above, you will realise that it is becoming easier for you to learn to relax, as you will gradually become familiar with the sensations.
You will notice that once your partner introduces his hand and takes it out a few times very slowly, your anal muscles will be completely dilated so the practice of putting in and taking out the hand at a little more speed will be done more easily.
With this, you will begin to enjoy not only the pleasure that comes from having your hand inside, but also the pleasure that comes from putting it in and taking it out, both physically and mentally, seeing that your ass puts less and less resistance, and your sensations will be completely full, to be fully open.
Remember to always add lubricant and never let the area to be dry!
Well, this was the first part of our complete guide to fisting!
In the second part, we will talk about the fisting techniques that only the very experienced people can do. Keep practicing!
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